In honor of Caregiver Appreciation Month, we recognize the unwavering strength, resilience, and love of caregivers who dedicate their lives to supporting others. Karissa’s heartfelt reflection beautifully captures her journey as a single mom and caregiver to her son, Giuseppe. Their story is one of extraordinary challenges, transformative growth, and an unshakable commitment to advocacy and care—driven by the unconditional love that binds them together.
In her own words, below is an excerpt of Karissa's experiences as a caregiver.
"Caregiving, Advocacy, and Unconditional Love.
Being both a caregiver and a single mom to a child with special needs and autism has been a profound journey—one filled with unique challenges, transformative lessons, and an abundance of love. It’s a role that requires strength I never knew I possessed, stretching my emotional and physical limits daily. There are moments when I ask myself, How am I going to do this? Yet, through faith and determination, I find the strength to keep going. My unconditional love for my son, Giuseppe, is the driving force behind everything I do. This love fuels my determination to go to extraordinary lengths to support him tirelessly. Along the way, I’ve learned that this journey isn’t just about caregiving—it’s about transformation. It changes how you see the world, deepens your empathy, and reveals the true meaning of resilience. I’ve learned to see life through Giuseppe’s eyes, on his level. This perspective has taught me to hold onto hope, to celebrate the small victories, and to embrace the indescribable joy he brings into my life. It has reshaped who I am—not just as a mother, but as a person. Yet, caregiving is far from easy. It comes with moments of deep doubt, when I wonder if I could have done better, or when I feel the weight of defeat despite knowing I’ve left no stone unturned. Advocacy is a constant part of this role—fighting for the right resources, services, and opportunities so Giuseppe can lead the independent, productive life I know he’s capable of. Each day brings its own challenges—managing routines, medications, therapy appointments, and daily living needs—while balancing household commitments and personal responsibilities. It’s a full-time job that often feels isolating and misunderstood. Caregiving is a labor of love, yes, but it’s also demanding, exhausting, and relentless. Still, there is so much joy in this role. The bond I share with Giuseppe is deeply fulfilling. When he struggles to understand or navigate the world, I am his voice. I guide him, advocate for him, and celebrate every win—no matter how small—because every victory matters. Through this journey, I’ve also learned the hard way how important it is to prioritize both of our emotional, physical, and mental well-being. Without self-care, burnout is inevitable. I’ve come to understand that taking time for myself isn’t selfish—it’s essential."
